What exactly is love and how do we find it? What makes us fall in love and why do we feel it for one person and not another? From possible scientific advances to inventive ways of finding a soul mate, ABC News reports on what is one of the most complicated and mysterious processes in one's life - love.Biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher has spent 30 years putting couples under the microscope -- analyzing love and scrutinizing affection. ABC News examines her theories in a quest to discover: when people meet a potential partner, what turns the feelings on romantic love on - or off -- and can you speed up the dating game by tapping into mother nature's mating game?
We also look at the extreme measures some people take in the search for love, including arranged marriages. Only 5 to 7% of arranged marriages end in divorce, compared to the near 50% divorce rate in the U.S. of marriages made for love. And when nature isn't taking its course and the search for love needs a romantic bailout, some people are turning to headhunter for the heart April Beyer. This Los Angeles matchmaker, who charges $30,000 a year for her services, believes that psychology - not biology - will lead to love.
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(DVD Version: PAL) Men have lost their way... We no longer know how to be men. We simply can't understand the dating scene. Everything our fathers told us no longer applies. We're not sure if we should open the door for her, if we should pay, if we should wait two days before we call so we don't appear needy. Or is it three? Should we be sensitive and considerate, sharing our feelings with other and crying often? Or should we steel ourselves against the vagaries of life, shouldering our burden with resolute and silent determination? We don't really know anymore... Men today have the viewpoint that it is "us" over here and "them" over there. So many men today view women as some kind of enemy, like a force to be conquered or overcome. The dating and relationship scene is viewed as some kind of a struggle or battle. Men are over here, arrayed on a hill, staring helplessly across an abyss of silence at women over there in their walled and imposing fortress. If men today are so lost and confused, what about the women? Do they have all the answers? Do they perhaps hold all the cards? Do they have the upper hand when it comes to relationships and dating? Today's woman has lost her dreams. Her relationships, castles of sand, so carefully constructed and measured, that once seemed so promising, wash away on the shore. And she is saddened a little more. By the time she has reached adulthood, she has learned to be efficient, tough, and independent. In this volume, we will explore this shifting dynamic of men and women. We will explore how things have changed. This changing landscape is the beginning of a nascent men's movement, one that has not been created by "relationship gurus". We've always had those: men and women who give "dating advice". Men's magazines are filled with advice that no longer applies in today's world. Men today have recognized that almost all of the advice provided by the multi-billion dollar self-help industry is completely inapplicable today... "The Way of Men & Women" is Volume Two of the four-volume Enlightened Seduction by Zan DVD Series. Titles in this DVD series: - Volume 1 - The Way of the Natural - Volume 2 - The Way of Men & Women - Volume 3 - The Way of Relationships - Volume 4 - The Way of Change
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(DVD Version: PAL) It seems that marriage no longer works - women and men simply don't get invested as deeply today as they once did. Intentions are noble, dreams are dreamy, "happily ever after" is the story we all still desire. And yet all around us we see the smoking wreckage of relationships. A man who is just recovering from the destruction of his marriage or relationship is terrified of the notion of trying to navigate the high seas of dating today. And with good reason... Relationships and dating have devolved into a series of manipulation and mind games and a contest of wills. There's a kind of mean spirit that permeates relationships today. And despite our best intentions, relationships today almost always follow the same typical and predictable path. They have a life cycle that repeats itself over and over again. It's amazing how regularly our relationships crash on the rocks. In fact, can you imagine any other enterprise of humanity that is undertaken with such spectacular optimism? If we failed as regularly in 
New York Times bestselling author Nora Roberts, writing as J.D. Robb, continues her prolific string of hits with her latest installment in the In Death series of futuristic thrillers starring hard-boiled detective Eve Dallas and a quirky cast of characters, including Eve's husband, Roarke, who owns most of Manhattan and can be relied upon to bring all his considerable resources to bear to help his wife solve the case whether she wants him to or not, and Peabody, Eve's uptight assistant, who has an off-again, on-again thing going with the irreverent Officer McNab. This time Eve is on the trail of a serial killer--or maybe killers--who stalks young women looking for love in online poetry chat rooms. Once a romantic date has been arranged, the murderer sets the scene with roses, champagne, and candlelight, then serves his unsuspecting victims a lethal combination of date-rape drugs that takes them to the height of pleasure and too far beyond. But this killer is really clever, altering his look to become each victim's dream date. What a nightmare! Detective Dallas is on the case, chasing an anonymous psychopath with a twisted taste in romance. But Eve seems a little more fragile this time around, still plagued by the nightmare of childhood abuse. Is retirement from the 
It seems that marriage no longer works - women and men simply don't get invested as deeply today as they once did. Intentions are noble, dreams are dreamy, "happily ever after" is the story we all still desire. 
These men are those who have learned the ability to see women in their natural state, who can see right through their makeup, their walls, their insecurities and their loss. 
(DVD Version: PAL) Can the art of love be learned? Can we learn to be the kind of man women respond to? Can we learn ways of being that increase our aura, our charm, our confidence, our attractiveness quotient with women? Can you learn to live a life that is purposeful, can you learn to be compelling, can you learn how to have a certain joie de vivre that makes you irresistible to women, a man to be admired and desired? Can we actually change? The answer to all those questions is emphatically "Yes". Natural skills, seduction skills, can be learned by almost anyone. Success with women, as with anything, is not an accident. It is a choice. It is deciding exactly how you want the world around you to be and what you want your future to look like... "The Way of Change" is Volume Four of the 4-Volume Enlightened Seduction by Zan DVD Series. Titles in this DVD series: - Volume 1 - The Way of the Natural - Volume 2 - The Way of Men & Women - Volume 3 - The Way of Relationships - Volume 4 - The Way of Change
Which sort of seducer could you be: Siren? Rake? Cold Coquette? Star? Comedian? Charismatic? or Saint? This book will show you which. Charm, persuasion, the ability to create illusions: these are some of the many dazzling gifts of the Seducer, the compelling figure who is able to manipulate, mislead and give pleasure all at once. When raised to the level of art, seduction, and indirect and subtle form of power, has toppled empires, won elections and enslaved great minds. In this beautiful, sensually designed book, Greene unearths the two sides of seduction: the characters and the process. Discover who you, or your pursuer, most resembles. Learn, too, the pitfalls of the anti-Seducer. In part II, immerse yourself in the twenty four manoeuvres and strategies of the seductive process, the ritual by which a seducer gains mastery over their target. Understand how to 'Choose the Right Victim', 'Appear to Be an Object of Desire' and 'Confuse Desire and Reality'. In addition, Greene provides instruction on how to identify victims by type. Each fascinating character and each cunning tactic demonstrates a fundamental truth about who we are, and the targets we've become - or hope to win over. "The Art of Seduction" is an indispensable primer on the essence of one of history's greatest weapons and the ultimate power trip.
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(DVD Version: PAL) There's a subset of men who move among women with ease. These men are those who have learned the ability to see women in their natural state, who can see right through their makeup, their walls, their insecurities and their loss. They see women as they really are. We all know a natural, someone who has a natural facility with women and who is comfortable in the land of women. Why is it that some men seem to have an aura, a presence, a way of drawing women into their reality? What is it that sets these men apart from you? Can it be analyzed and described? Can it be taught? Can it be learned? In this eye-opening volume, you will discover the traits common to all natural seducers. Every man in history who was good with women had all of these traits. And interestingly enough, no other men have any of these traits. You either have all of them or none of them. For the first time ever, this DVD will enable you to catch a glimpse into the mindset of a Natural. These traits have never described before, and yet they are the very essence of true, enlightened seduction - the secrets that Naturals throughout history have always known... "The Way of the Natural" is Volume One of the 4-Volume Enlightened Seduction by Zan DVD Series. Titles in this DVD series: - Volume 1 - The Way of the Natural - Volume 2 - The Way of Men & Women - Volume 3 - The Way of Relationships - Volume 4 - The Way of Change
The world’s greatest pickup artist is back! After the bestselling exposé The Game pulled back the curtain on Mystery and his culture of professional pickup artists, he became an international phenomenon. Unfortunately, while it’s no secret that Mystery’s ideas are wildly effective, women have started to catch on. They’ve seen the show and heard the routines—so now it’s time for the next level of game! With techniques honed over fifteen years of trial, error, and ultimate triumph, and following his hit VH1 reality series, the celebrated sensei is back with his latest living-large exploits and a new and improved playbook for the twenty-first-century playboy.